Dear whom will not be named,
I can see you. I am a close friend of yours. I am trying to help you through many of your life problems. Recently, you’ve realized that I am right about a lot of those problems… I feel the need to tell you this:

You’re walking into a trap.

You don’t know it, and even if I told you, you wouldn’t believe it. I know the people around you better than you do, and I can predict the future that lies ahead of you. You ARE going to regret your actions tonight. You will be ashamed of yourself, and I will end up being the person who’s there for you in the end. I will be the one to tell you that you couldn’t see what was going to happen.

This man, also to be nameless, is only using you. It is just convenient for him to use you right now. It won’t be long before he begins ignoring you again. I mean, the only reason you’re with him currently is because I am the connection between you two.

— Wait. Does this make me an enabler? No. You wanted him to come with, I just tried giving you what you want. My morals are correct.

Moving on… Im not jealous, no, I’m not jealous at all. I just don’t want to see you hurt. Again. By the same person. Again. I don’t enjoy being the person to heal your broken heart, I also don’t enjoy having to give you the bad news and bad aspects of my friend(s).

Wrapping this up… Please, save yourself, and move on. This man has hurt you repeatedly, and you should understand that this vicious circle is only vicious because you allow it to revolve. Now it is time to stop it.

Sincerely,
A deeply concerned friend.